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Why a BaZi Chart Alone Can’t Solve Relationship Problems?

This past August was truly intense. With the Snake year having a destruction combo against the Monkey month, was strong — and just as expected, I received more consultations about relationship issues than usual. But here’s the truth I want to share: reading a BaZi chart alone will not immediately fix your relationship problems.

So, what do people usually ask in consultations in relationship matters? Often, people come to me with questions like:

  • “Will I get divorced this year?”

  • “Will I remarry?”

Yes, I’ve asked those questions myself before. So I know… where is this coming from ie - not knowing enough about what bazi can or cannot do. So, while our chart may show when relationship challenges arise, it will never hand you a guaranteed outcome. Why? Because the outcome depends on your choices.

The Role of “Choice” in Relationships A BaZi chart can reveal potential tension points, highlight compatibility patterns, and even point out how you shouldn't react in a situation. If both partners’ charts are read, we can understand personalities better and anticipate tendencies in conflict. But here’s the key: the chart doesn’t decide your relationship — you do.It is your choice how to respond, react, and manage issues when they surface.

Strategic BaZi Applications vs. Real Healing When it comes to relationships, BaZi can show us personality tendencies, compatibility dynamics, and when clashes are more likely to surface. Sometimes, using these insights strategically can help you “buy time” — for example, by avoiding unnecessary conflict during certain months or understanding how not to trigger your partner. Yes, great. Awesome.  But let’s be clear: this is only a short-term strategy (unless you want your relationship to be short-term) Truth is, if healing doesn’t happen within yourself (as you should understand more of your subconscious in your own bazi chart) — if the underlying wounds, reactions, and emotional patterns aren’t addressed — the same cycles will keep returning.  That’s why the long term solution goes beyond chart-reading. BaZi helps you understand the map, but the deeper work comes from within.

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Why Awareness Matters?

Many couples fall into “autopilot mode,” just going through daily routines without consciously nurturing the relationship. But when you stop paying attention, the connection weakens, and problems quietly escalate until they feel unfixable.

This is why BaZi should be seen as a tool for awareness, not a magic solution. It tells us:

  • Personality tendencies

  • Compatibility patterns

  • Possible triggers in a given year or month

But unless you bring in emotional effort, communication, and willingness to grow, even the clearest chart won’t prevent problems, or otherwise, you solve one problem, and later - another will resurface again..

So, the takeaway is this..

BaZi can point you to the what and the when of relationship challenges. But the how — how you choose to respond, how you manage emotions, and how you commit to your partner — is entirely up to you, and your awareness. 

So if you’re in a relationship now, trust me, don’t just rely on fate, clashes, or charts. Pay attention. Be intentional. Build awareness. That’s the real way to prevent escalation and create a stronger, healthier bond. That is why couples come to me for consult , before they have issues, just to improve their relationships and interactions.


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